For freshmen, tips on how to forge positive roommate relationships on campus
July 7, 2024 2024-07-07 11:32For freshmen, tips on how to forge positive roommate relationships on campus
For many, going to the university or college will be the first time they have shared a bedroom with another person, or group of people in their life.
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This new lifestyle of sharing a living space has an impact on the students differently. For some, it’s a sort of culture shock while others shrug and forge ahead with life on campus.
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How do students cope with this new experience of forging a positive roommate relationship?
Generally, there are few tips on sharing a living space whether that’s with one student or several in school away from the comfort of your home.
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1. Get to know each other
It is important to know your new roommate and understand each other’s temperament long before the academic session begins.
To start with, reach out to your new friend on social media and get to know each other’s likes and dislikes, lifestyle, and dining habits, among others.
In this way, you will not cross each other’s parts during the one year you will be together.
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2. Reach a compromise on your living styles
This is very important because residents/members of a particular space are from different backgrounds, lifestyles, and ways of doing things.
This can breed conflict early if not properly addressed and each member knows their limits in the rules spelled out.
For example, it’s a good idea to discuss how you both feel about having guests throughout the time you will be together.
In all, it’s important to discuss how you are going to make this work while living together and this could be the springboard for an enduring relationship thereafter.
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3. Share important information
It is important to share important information, including contact details and medical history, in case of an emergency.
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4. It is not necessary for roommates to stay together all the time
Many roommates have become best friends and others don’t. Either way, both are normal.
However, it’s a good idea to spread your reach beyond your room and form a closer bond with others outside your room.
This happens if you develop the habit of staying at least away from your regular roommate.
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5. A good study habits
Devise study habits that will not hurt both parties and damage the relationship in the long run.
To take some pressure off, have a variety of places to work outside of your room.